"Don't be frustrated by the things you can not control"
This thought came to me this morning after reading my "daily" devotional. I have been feeling frustrated lately, I guess. It's very hard for me being surrounded by people who are not believers. I worry about their impact on my kids. But, here's what I need to remember: God created my kids and wants the best for them. No matter what happens here on Earth, God has my kids' best interest at heart. There is nothing I can do to change that. And there is nothing any of the other people can do to change that.
My issue comes in when I don't know what things I CAN control. What are those things? Not much, let me tell you.
But, here are a couple Bible verses that make me feel a little more comfortable right now.
"But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid."--John 14:26-27 (NIV)
"I have told you this so that your joy may be complete. My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit--fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. This is my command: Love each other."--John 15:11-17 (NIV)
Sometimes, when I'm stressed out or anxious, I think, "God, I need a little more. A little more understanding. I don't have any idea what's going on right now or what I'm supposed to be doing. I'm confused." And then I close my eyes and flip through my Bible. The verse that I first landed on today was this one:
"Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, trust also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going."--John 14:1-4 (NIV)
What I'm thinking is that I can NOT control anything in this world except for my own actions. And all God commands me to do is Love. So, now, my challenge is to figure out how to love without letting all of the other stuff bog me down.
I hope everyone has a blessed day and remembers to Love.